Playing…an art and lesson *NSFW*

Okay I try to make my titles match my post and also be discreet.

I was watching real sex on HBO “Yes they actually still show the show on Wednesday nights”. While I was watching the show the topic of masturbation or self play came up and it got me to think about how many times I’ve given advice or talk to women about masturbation.

First and foremost masturbation or self play is a lesson. A lesson where you learn your body. You learn how your body reacts to certain movements or touches or feelings. You learn what makes your body come quickly. You learn how your body reacts after you come. You also how learn what your body will crave.

For men, we always wonder about the. masturbating all the time. Most men start masturbating around the age of 10 or in their pre teen years. For a woman, some may start at an early age, some may start in their college years, some may never actually do it.

For me, I am open about my sexual experiences and my sexual life. I started masturbating around 10 years old I think. I had accidentally clicked on to channel 88 and if you remember back then 88 or 89 was the porn channel where the picture wasn’t good but you could see what was going on and even hear what was going on. When I started watching it, something inside me happened…I got excited and aroused and I had to find a release. That was my start. What was yours?

Secondly masturbation is an art. Whether you are self playing for yourself or self playing for your partner or self playing for others to watch known as voyagers. It’s an art of showing how well you and your body know each other and how you and your body connects with others without anyone else touching you.

Thirdly self play or masturbation is a stress relief. A lot of men masturbate throughout many times of the day. But there are women who don’t masturbate at all. For me as well as other women I can truly say that self play takes the edge off of you. You are calmer, your more relaxed and you sleep better.

Whenever I talk to my girlfriends, or a lot of women and we’re talking about sexual entities or I am talking about a specific topic at one of my exhibition message groups, I try to get women to open up and talk about their bodies. As a woman we should not be ashamed of our bodies. We should not be ashamed to learn our bodies.
I ask women who don’t masturbate or do other sexual acts, how are you going to tell a man what you like, if you don’t know yourself? How are you going to show someone what to do, if you have never done it yourself to yourself? How are you going to show or tell your partner how to make you come, ejaculate or squirt, if you have never made yourself do it? These are just some of the questions ask.

Learning your body during self play or masturbation is just like learning your body for anything else. You learn your body throughout your menstrual cycle as you grow. You learn your body when it comes to the foods that you eat. You learn your body as you workout and you see muscle and fat being moved or taken out and transformed. You learn your body with everything else why not learn your body for sex or for sexual acts.

If any of you have any questions or concerns and you want to add feel free to ask and I will try my best to answer as best as I can. And if I cannot answer I will find another solution for you.

Signed
-The Advisor

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experiencetheforest

I am here to talk about any and everything thing that comes to mind. Some things are not suitable for work. I blog what I feel and what I think.

3 thoughts on “Playing…an art and lesson *NSFW*”

  1. I was 14 when I discovered myself. Wish they would have taught this in school. I found porn in the house and let it rip. The first one was the best one.

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